Cycling couple-nutso communication

[LBTC]

ShootingStar - have you talked to your partner about how these decisions made you feel? Whether they are acceptable to the rest of us is immaterial to your relationship, but how you feel about it is paramount. Talk about it. Try to find out how his mind works about these things. Let him know how they made you feel. I'm sending you butterflies in blue and orange and glittering purple, and hugs, too,
~T~

[mimitabby]

In the beginning of our marriage, DH bought me expensive gifts at very bad times (when we were broke!!) he also bought things for himself. I had to get him to sign an agreement to TELL me before he spent over X dollars. 30 years later, X is greater than it used to be, but we do both tell each other before we buy large ticket items.