ummmm, Shootingstar, how is the relationship?

These are major decisions, and apparently he has left you out of their creation, conception, and planning. Which I find a bit odd.

And a multi-week biking trip / vacation to Europe? What are you supposed to do while he's gone? Do you usually take long trips apart? If so, then maybe this isn't a big deal. But if my significant other took a long trip to Europe without me coming along for even part of it, I'd be really ticked.

I agree with Chicago, I'd be hurt.