Welcome guest, is this your first visit? Click the "Create Account" button now to join.

To disable ads, please log-in.

Shop at TeamEstrogen.com for women's cycling apparel.

Page 1 of 4 1234 LastLast
Results 1 to 15 of 58
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Location
    Chehalis, WA
    Posts
    2

    Question Do you feel this is safe?

    To disable ads, please log-in.

    I have been stuggling with this problem for a while now and thought I would get your thoughts as a 'sanity check'.
    Here is my situation: I love to ride and explore on the rural roads in my county. This means roads that meander though remote areas that may not have a house for miles and you may see a car every 10 minutes or so.

    I dont know anybody to ride with so I go alone.

    Would you ride alone in a situation like this?
    Am I taking foolish risk?

    Thanks

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Sep 2006
    Location
    Central Indiana
    Posts
    6,034
    I ride out in the country alone, too. It's generally not quite that remote, but it's not exactly populated either. I try to minimize the risk by carrying a cell phone, having the gear needed to fix a flat and telling someone where I'm going. I suppose I could carry pepper spray or the like, too.

    Wherever your ride and with whom, there's risk involved. We can minimize and prepare for those risks, but we can't really eliminate them. I think I stand a greater chance of getting hit by a car than getting attacked on some country road so it doesn't bother me too much. I'm actually more afraid of stray dogs than anything! I've perfected the art of yelling "Back" at the top of my lungs.
    Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.

    --Mary Anne Radmacher

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Mar 2008
    Location
    Hood River, OR
    Posts
    38
    Call me daring, call me irresponsible, call me stupid, I don't care....I love riding rural roads by myself. As long as I have my phone with me, I'm no worse off than when I'm in my car by myself. Stay alert, don't talk to guys who have a "puppy" or "candy" in the car....unless it's chocolate (chocolate lab puppies take careful consideration)....
    Usually common sense takes pretty good care of me.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Location
    South Burlington, Vermont
    Posts
    19
    I ride alone most of the time and ride rural areas (though maybe not as remote as what you're describing). I never feel "unsafe" when I'm out for a ride, but my mom (and several other relatives) really worry about me out riding alone in places where there aren't a whole lot of people around. I think it's probably one of those things where if you just don't feel safe about it or if you're uncomfortable with it---don't do it. I don't even think twice about it and I just go (cuz the alternative is not riding and that's just not an option I care to think about)----but if you have concerns about it, go with your gut.

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Apr 2008
    Location
    Chehalis, WA
    Posts
    2

    Thanks for the responses...

    It is reassuring to hear your responses. After being told I am stupid by freinds and family it started to bother me.
    I do carry a cellphone and tools.
    I also have a can of Halt! Dog Repellent which I have not needed but it is reassuring to have for dogs of multiple species

  6. #6
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Riding my Luna & Rivendell in the Hudson Valley, NY
    Posts
    8,411
    I keep some pepper spray on my frame where I can grab it, plus a cell phone with me. And always tell someone where you are going to ride that day. If you live alone, leave a note on your kitchen table as to where you are riding.
    If you encounter anything remotely suspicious, pedal in the other direction immediately rather than being afraid to look 'foolish' by turning around.
    Lisa
    My mountain dulcimer network...FOTMD.com...and my mountain dulcimer blog
    My personal blog:My blog
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

  7. #7
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Posts
    2,506
    That's my favorite kind of riding. Carry a cell.

  8. #8
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Jackson Hole, Wyo.
    Posts
    189
    Or take a self-defense class if you worry about being 'napped. The first summer I lived out in Wyoming (11 years ago) a woman disappeared while running alone on a rural route. Her husband's name has been cleared officially, but most people here still think he did it. This is why I'm not printing her name.

    But I was 22 and scared, so I got a dog for a hiking companion (and cause I like dogs). Her body's never been found. Now that I'm older, and nothing like that has happened since anywhere in the vicinity, and I have a self-defense class under my belt, I never worry about being attacked by a person. Bear, cougar, yes, crazy person, no. I've also read "The Gift of Fear," a fabulous book about listening to your intuition, as Bleecker referred to. It will freak you out for a week or so, but you'll feel better after reading it. There's also very, very little random crime here (one instance per decade?) which is why we think her husband killed her.

    “You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose ...” -- Dr. Seuss

    Life's an adventure! http://www.lovenewsjh.blogspot.com

  9. #9
    Join Date
    Apr 2007
    Location
    Brooklyn, NY
    Posts
    820
    Quote Originally Posted by Sprocket's Mom View Post
    Stay alert, don't talk to guys who have a "puppy" or "candy" in the car....unless it's chocolate (chocolate lab puppies take careful consideration)....
    Sorry... but I just have to say that's the funniest thing I've read today!

  10. #10
    Join Date
    Jun 2005
    Location
    Illinois
    Posts
    3,151
    If you're where there are many people, it's far more likely one of 'em will be a bad guy

    I ride alone very often. I see people now and then out there. They wave. Okay, one guy was prob'ly schnokkered and said "hey, young LADY!" ... in a completely surprised, not leering voice, so I think he was just amazed that I wasn't a guy, and of course by the time he processed that bit of information I was another mile down the road.

    When driver's have been aggressive at me, it's been in town, not out in the boonies... tho' I do feel vulnerable. I am not going to let that vulnerability control my life, at least not today. I think of all the other people who are even more vulnerable on the planet - women who have to go to dangerous jobs, are working for nasty people who have power over them... some of 'em making hte products I've bought. Or I think about how many miles I have to go and plot when I"m going to hit which corner and try to beat it.

    (And the bad stuff is awfully rare. I did 10,000 miles last year and maybe four times somebody did something *potentially* obnoxious/harmful.)

  11. #11
    Join Date
    May 2007
    Location
    Columbia, MO
    Posts
    2,041
    I was hiking in the woods one afternoon and I stood aside so a group of older folks on horseback could make their way past me on the trail. One lady said, "You're so brave to be out here by yourself."

    The only crime I'd heard of in those woods was a young lady who committed suicide, way over on the other side of the park. We've had I don't know how many shootings make the news in town recently, and who knows how many crimes that are too mundane to make the news. In fact if she'd killed herself in her dorm we wouldn't have heard about it at all.

  12. #12
    Join Date
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Belle, Mo.
    Posts
    1,778
    I do it all the time and our rural gravel roads are as remote as they get! It's beautiful, peaceful and some of my best rides.
    Claudia

    2009 Trek 7.6fx
    2013 Jamis Satellite
    2014 Terry Burlington

  13. #13
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Posts
    2,059
    I do it.

    There are some areas where I would like to go, but they are known to be infested with meth folks and folks hostile to cyclists, and I haven't gone there alone, yet.

    I'm thinking of getting a little .380 I saw...super small, super light.
    "The best rides are the ones where you bite off much more than you can chew, and live through it." ~ Doug Bradbury

  14. #14
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    Seattle
    Posts
    8,548
    I was walking down an alley in Pioneer Square, Seattle (downtown) and some men saw me and said; "aren't you afraid to be alone here?" to which I responded, "no, not really"

    City, Country, have common sense and have fun.
    Mimi Team TE BIANCHISTA
    for six tanks of gas you could have bought a bike.

  15. #15
    Join Date
    Feb 2007
    Location
    Southeast Idaho
    Posts
    1,145
    I ride alone, too. Pretty much all we have around here are rural back country roads. There is nothing like riding next to fields of corn, open fields, or Russian Olives. I have taken a women's self defense class but I don't know how much I would remember if push came to shove. I carry pepper spray with me on my handlebars. I always let someone know where I am going and approximately when I will be back. I always carry my cell phone. Other than that, it's in the hands of the good Lord to get me home safely!

 

 

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •