We sat down last night and had a margarita over it. She is very uneasy about the whole thing and has come to realize things are going to be different between her and this lady now. Which I think makes her even more sad then having to pay money out.
I am going to pass on your advice's and see if any of it helps her. She said there is no way she is ever going to help with the money part ever again!
Thanks for everybody's input! And for support for my friend.