JoNY, definitely will try a Ruby. As well as a Roubaix, Tarmac, Madone and others.
What I find on my bike, and this was true on the Diva, too, was that in the hoods I feel a smidge too streched out, but in the drops not low or stretched out enough.
I'm kinda wondering if one of the more aggressive women's bikes, shorter but lower, might help...like the new Scott for women. Someone here on TE got one not too long ago.
"The best rides are the ones where you bite off much more than you can chew, and live through it." ~ Doug Bradbury