Quote Originally Posted by tulip View Post
Good timing for me to read that post. A few years ago I took a huge risk in order to find happiness. After years of "is this all there is?" I allowed myself to listen to my heart and soul (and told my practical, descended-from-Puritans mind to just shut up for a while). It's been an incredible journey; extremely difficult at times, but indescribably rich and meaningful.
Oh my, Tulip! I could have written this......best of luck to you.

I am having similar issues (though no direct contact from ex - it is through our children....neither of whom have a good relationship with him), because I am now remarrying and he can't stand it....