Well, when I bought my bike she put a longer stem on it I'm guessing because the reach was too short. She is a well-know bike fitter so I trust her. I'm getting use to this new more aggressive position coming from a world of MTBs and hybrids so like you I question whether it's just something I had to get use to. If she left the shorter stem on I probably would have been more upright. Would I have been as comfortable? Who knows?