Hubby is mad that I won't ride......

[SadieKate]

GeorigaGirl, just wanted to let you know that I don't read your husband as controlling at all. RoseRyder got it so right -- I've found that hubbys and boyfriends are sometimes the worst teachers out there even if they have your interest at heart. The whole Mars/Venus communication thing is amplified...

This thread does seem to be going off into worries about your relationship when I didn't see that at all. I've got an ex-military officer hubby and he can be an opinionated SOB at times. Thinks he knows everything and will butt into conversations in stores when I'm trying to gather info from the expert, expert NOT being him. I've just learned to kick him in the shins. The man likes to talk but he's durable. 24 years of shin-kicking and he still tries it. Or maybe he's just a slower learner.

Is he controlling? Not at all. Matter of fact, he'll frequently recognize before I when I need to do something on my own, without him, and would never read or post here because he sees it as my space (unless I ask him to). He's incredibly enthusiastic and supportive of me, but can he be an arrogant know-it-all? You bet.

Anyway, just wanted you to know that not all of us think your husband is in anyway detrimentally controlling -- at least from what we've read here. He sounds in many ways like a winner.

Try as many saddles as it takes and a fitting to be sure you have the saddle in the right place on the bike and under your anatomy. And many happy miles together.