Thanks all for your thoughts and prayers. DH's uncle was moved out of ICU to a regular room yesterday - hoping that's good news. No update on his aunt. His parents did seem cheered by our visit, I know his dad really enjoyed the concert we took them to. Everything else is stable - in it for the long term. There's only so much we can do - trying to get DH to take care of himself is high on the list right now. I'll keep you updated.