Hubby is mad that I won't ride......

[Zen]

it's the umm...can't say this delicately...my other area that hurts...goes numb.

Labia majora?
Labia minora?
Perineum?
Twinkie?

[SadieKate]

Thanks, Zen, I don't quite understand why clinical terms are so difficult to use. It certainly takes the guess work out of the conversation.

[Zen]

and maybe find yourself someone else to ride with who's a little less...pushy. at least until you feel more comfortable.

[salsabike]

Twinkie, THAT'S it.

I agree with Grog and all the others. It is very important that you get a bike fit done by an expert, and it probably would go best if you went by yourself so you could feel free to say, Hey, it hurts THERE; can you fix that? THEN you can set about making saddle decisions, and you may well want to change at that point.

[bouncybouncy]

Twinkie?

my hubby may actually think of the pastry...then it would lead into a whole 'nother dicussion!

who-ha!
that is what it is 'round here...

[motochick]

I have nothing in the way of advice to add as everyone else has pretty much covered it....but, I have 2 selle italia lady gel flow saddles lying around that I do not need anymore. They worked great for me on rides under 50 miles but now that my mileage has increased, I have switched to a selle an-atomica. If you would like to try the gel flow, I will ship one to you at no cost and you can give it a whirl. You don't need to feel like you have to buy it or anything, I am just trying to help you out. PM me if you are interested.

Brenda