Hey LBTC, sorry to hear about your Grandmother's death. How very sad.
A new job prospect is very exciting.
Well, I guess I'm just too simple... I first look at the salary. If the salary is MORE than what I'm making, I then look at the benefits. If the benefits are very close to my current job... I go for it. But most of my jobs have been pretty much the same in the areas of benefits, so there wasn't a whole lot to haggle there.
As for salary negotiation, I just give a number that is 10%+ more than what I'm currently making. Bam. It's done.
"Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather, to skid in broadside thoroughly used-up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming: WOW WHAT A RIDE!!!!"