oh geez...I am so boudoir challenged!!! Thanks for that slap across the face...I will make a stop on the way home and let's just say....er....um....make things a little more fun hehe!!!

As for the toys (NOT bedroom toys...eg: speakers, bike stuff...) funny you mention, he just finished getting all the goodies to wire the house with speakers and a computer as a main control center (yes, he is a huge techy geek) but he can't do anything with it cause of his injury...phooey!!! meanwhile he is playing with a new game controller and a couple new games on his computer...but that is getting old i think.

LBTC...he shattered his ankle mtbiking...has roughly 1-2 months left of limited weight bearing (it happened 2 days before Christmas) He admitted today that he is a little depressed. I have to admit I noticed it the other day he & I went out with our trail dog and he saw how well she was doing (she is still a pup and in training) with me in charge...I am sure he was sad that he had not been able to work with her as much on the trail! She is also becoming very attached to me cause I am the one who is taking her out on long fun runs...he wishes he could!!!

I am a very sensitive person and am not handling this as well as I would like to... I know it could be worse and we are lucky he will be fine but sometimes you forget...I am trying to keep it all in perspective and know that this is temporary! I am also telling myself this whole situation will make me stronger...cause it is definitely not the end of the world!!!

Thanks for the ideas...and the butterflies!!! I will pass them on soon... And thanks for letting me vent...I feel a wee bit better already!