one obvious thing comes to mind. Seriously, I'm not trying to be a wiseguy or bring the level of conversation down here. I think that gestures of ahem, that nature can really mean a lot if he's feeling depressed or badly about himself and/or you're not connecting with each other and fighting alot.
other thoughts... is there anything he's wanted for a long time but won't get himself (that you can afford)? New speakers, new bike parts, etc? That would make him feel like "wow, she really care about me and did something really thoughtful just for me?"
Or maybe just talk about how you're feeling with him? Without blaming - and asking him if there's something he's needing right now? Saying you feel like you're not giving him quite what he needs and you really want to?
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03-18-2008, 09:36 AM #2
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