Sometimes it seems like we can get hurt so easily. Just let it roll off your shoulders, your a good person not to have punched her out, she was nasty. I am new to riding a 2nd year, and found it hard to find anyone to ride with in my first year. I hope this spring will be different. It can be difficult finding the right group to ride with. Be happy you have at least some partners.....and stay positive and up and they will all be calling you to hit the rode with them, once they know you!!!