** gentle hug **

Sorry Melalvai you're having to feel that way. As a Ph.D. student who actually studies Ph.D. students (I know, I know, it's weird) I'm afraid I know exactly what you mean.

Smart of you to consider other options than research intensive universities. I don't think they should be second choices. They are different, but certainly not necessarily worse. In any case, whether your colleagues reward it or not, your students will really appreciate your teaching skills.

You might find some interest in this article: Smith-Doerr, L. (2006). Stuck in the Middle: Doctoral Education Ranking and Career Outcomes for Life Scientists. Bulletin of Science, Technology & Society, 26(3), 243-255.

Take care...