I took the saddle back AND I took my old one with me, I found a men's saddle that is almost the same as mine but is a little wider - not much- in the nose and the cut out, that is where mine hurts so maybe this one will work, I can't remember the name but it isn't one I heard mentioned before.

Its raining AGAIN, so I guess I will put the bike on the trainer tonight and see what happens.