I think you could safely say "we have all been there" Thought I would share my story in hopes it would help someone...

I am a "newbie"...I mean NEWBIE!!! Only had a roadbike for less than a week...I am an avid mtbiker so 2 wheels and pedals are not a new concept BUT riding on asphalt, with cars, and other cyclist within inches of me is terrifying
Our (my fiance & me) solution is to meet with a "fast" group that rides along A1A (a beautiful route along the beach somewheres the neighborhood of Palm Beach) it is an up & back route...I will start off with the group and get dropped faster than a hot potato....ride my little tushy off till I get to the Chevron...catch my breath & turn around...ride the rest of my tushy back to the 7-11 With any luck they will have barely caught up or (wishful thinking) not catch up yet As I improve I will go farther until someday I will be Going the Distance!!!!

Good Luck...and RIDE ON!!!!