Smilingcat I would agree with you. There are some men who can't handle a woman being faster or stronger - it is just too much for their fragile egos to handle. However, I've found a group to ride with, a majority being male, who have welcomed me with open arms and make sure I'm part of their group. I'd much rather ride with these guys for I can ride my ride then to ride with the tender ego guys who can't handle me out climbing them or riding faster. Sundial keep looking for a group I'm sure you will find one and be welcomed into the fold wholeheartedly.