A woman specific seat is brilliant... talk to a woman in your LBS because their are several different styles of woman-specific seats based on our pelvis shapes (which come in several types).
Then make sure angle and position are right (get fitted if you are not sure) and then ride. Hopefully without the discomfort...

LOL... the gap in my seat is marketed as a "love channel" ... someone out there has a sense of humour, I'm sure!