Quote Originally Posted by Aramei
It is a bit embarassing to knwo that maybe you are bigger in that area than other women..LOL...I know a new saddle may help but are there any other tricks, suggestions?
First: everybody's different! That's what makes life interesting!

Second: I thought something similar. I used to get blistered, bruised, even bloodied in my very very tender region. Thought I just "stuck out" and sat on myself. 'Tain't true. First, I learned to sit my bike better, rocking my pelvis back a little to get solidly on my sitbones. But second, I GOT A NEW SADDLE. It made a difference like night and day. No more horrible friction burn!