Knott, I laughed when you said your son got into biiiig computer in school. When one of mine was in 6th grade, he snuck into the lab at lunch and hacked into the teacher's system. He didn't "do" anything, but his teacher was so upset when he got caught by the lab aide, I had to tell her to send him to the principal.
The principal's solution was to make a contract that he had to sign, saying he wouldn't do it again. My son said fine and signed it, and then proceeded to write a contract for the principal to sign. It said that Scott would not be unfairly accused of hacking into "porn" and other pervy sites.
Oye