I love the idea of play time during anxious moments! My Diva gets nervous at various times and will follow me around and shiver constantly when it's thundering and windy. I've never thought of playing with her! Great idea! Difficult during sleep hours, but maybe, if it's a particular toy, she may become conditioned to play with it on her own when she's feeling upset?

My suggestion was going to be Rescue Remedy. Maybe both in conjunction?

Sending butterflies to you both,
~T~