I use baby wipes for quick wipe downs, and since they don't disintegrate like Qtips can, I use baby wipe in little strips to thread through tight places and floss clean, sort of.

I do use a citrus degreaser...I apply it with a small paint brush to get it just where I want it, and not where I don't.

I also use mild bike wash in a spray bottle, and use a spray bottle of plain water for rinsing, when I'm not outside.

I have a variety of brushes, from large to small, and use different ones for the rims than I do for the drivetrain.

I find that a really nubby towel is great for the cassette.

I also keep alcohol and face pads handy for the rims.

I will use a hose outside when it is warm enough, but only with a nozzle that can produce a very broad, fine mist that has virtually NO pressure to it.

In the better weather when I'm riding all the time, I do a quick wipe down every time I ride (less than 5 minutes...basic frame, chain, rims, brake pads). Then, I do a regular wash every couple weeks. Then, every month or so I do a nit-picky clean. I realized I was doing OK with the cleaning when I apologized to my LBS for bringing the bike in dirty and they gave me really weird looks.

I have yet to take too much apart by myself, because I'm nervous about getting it back together. I need to get throught this barrier.

I enjoy detailing my bike the way I used to detail my horses. My brothers cannot understand why this does not carry over into detailing my car?