I didn't get the split coming from you Velo, but it is certainly "out there" in the mindsets of some of those who ride bikes...

Its something you might have to "break down" in the minds of your clients... perhaps an icebreaker/getting to know each other activity??

Perhaps focusing on the intentions and aspirations and sharing those in some way so that those who aspire to race and those who aspire to commute and those who aspire to randonneur all realise that, despite different goals, the dedication and passion for achieving their individuals goals is the same, and every goal carries equivilent value.

Creating a Meaningful Women’s Cycling Program: Fantastic content
Well done. You could probably market it as a programme/course for others to deliver. For example, I am sure that our Health and Sports Science Faculty where I work would be interested in delivering a programme like this.

And I am sorry about your bf... whatever the circumstances, the end of a long-term relationship is always tough.