Lisa and Tuckervill - I've got the same thing with my oldest brother. The last time I saw him in person was at my niece's wedding reception a few years ago where upon he picked a fight with everyone and ended up breaking glassware and such. We had to make him leave. He made my niece cry hurtful tears at her own wedding reception, ladies. In the end, he called people that were there and told them tons of lies to make it seem as though it was all my fault. I didn't even talk to him there. For years, he's been absolutely nasty and hateful toward me. I hear about the latest antics from my Mom and I stop her right away. I can't do it anymore. I don't want to know anything about him. He's flat out told me I am not part of his family or part of his world at all. That's okay with me. It's easier that way and I am happier not having him in my life. Sometimes you just have to do that.