Dear So and So

[MM_QFC!]

Hang in there, Lisa - you've had lots to deal with and this very painful decision wasn't made lightly, I'm sure. Anyone who chooses to be an a**hole in my life prompts the same decision from me. There should not be any need to have to walk on eggshells so as not to upset someone, especially a sibling, f'chrissakes. Hopefully, he'll grow up and get healthy and realize the huge loss in not having the gift of his sister in his life - whew!
(((Lisa)))
Mary

[deedolce]

Lisa,
I agree with all the others...he's a head case and no one, especially family, needs to tolerate his abuse! I hope he gets help.

[Xrayted]

Lisa and Tuckervill - I've got the same thing with my oldest brother. The last time I saw him in person was at my niece's wedding reception a few years ago where upon he picked a fight with everyone and ended up breaking glassware and such. We had to make him leave. He made my niece cry hurtful tears at her own wedding reception, ladies. In the end, he called people that were there and told them tons of lies to make it seem as though it was all my fault. I didn't even talk to him there. For years, he's been absolutely nasty and hateful toward me. I hear about the latest antics from my Mom and I stop her right away. I can't do it anymore. I don't want to know anything about him. He's flat out told me I am not part of his family or part of his world at all. That's okay with me. It's easier that way and I am happier not having him in my life. Sometimes you just have to do that.