Mr & Mrs. Flybye - best wishes to you both! This kind of thing is never easy - and seems even more difficult as adults. I hope the healing process is quick and you both will be back to "normal" (what's that???) soon!
BTW, my soon-to-be DH lived in Idaho for a few years - in Sandpoint & Priest River.....waaaaay up there....Someday I hope to visit the area and see what it is like. I hear it is beautiful! Enjoy - heal quickly - think SPRING!
Normal is just a setting on a Dryer - not my own quote, but nevertheless.
Northern Idaho is phenomenally beautiful. Well worth a trip. Stunning.