sorry!

[Irulan]

Anyone who was offended by the discussion could've chosen not to read it, as some apparently did, and that's their privilege. For the record, I told the intercom joke to my aerobics class, consisting of a dozen women aged 55-70, and they all thought it was hilarious.

'Nuff said.

I do believe in the forum guidelines it says that anything "nsfw" should be labeled as such, just to prevent this sort of thing. There was an incident many years ago here, based on some images posted, not labeled, that caused a big blow up ( and me to resign my moderatorship here) for the exact same reason,and for that clause to be added to the forum guidelines.

Not everyone agrees on what is offensive.

[NoNo]

On one of the other forums I participate in, we had a similar conflict a few years ago. The owner of the board was concerned that anyone just coming by the site looking for legitimate information, including children, might stumble upon the material. So the solution was to create an "Adults Only" section that required you to PM the mod for permission to view. I personally don't have any problem with colorful humor, but I totally understand the opinions of the other side. I don't know if this kind of solution is something worth considering here, I'm just putting it out there.

[Zen]

Considering what floats around out there the cause of the brouhaha is rather tame. There's only one way I can think of that someone would accidentally stumble upon the subject matter (through a search, anyway) and that would be no accident.

But the horse is dead. I'm not going to beat it anymore.

[sundial]

I enjoy participating with a forum that is civil, respectful, and diplomatic--like TE. There are far too many forums that don't respect their members.

[velogirl]

I'm personally not offended (and hadn't even seen the questionable content). However, as a business owner, I have to agree with Susan. And it's not just folks who wander over to TE who will be exposed to a thread like that.

Google "BJ for dummies" and the 4th and 5th entries lead you directly to TE -- TE gets very good search engine placement. All of the other entries are s$x related. That process might lead someone to associate the TE name with s$x.

Everything we type on this forum is quickly search-able via google. I was shocked when I first realized this, because I sometimes think when I'm in this forum I'm in a safe haven. But the reality is that with the internet, anything you type becomes public domain.

While I realize that everyone was having a little fun, and a few were offended, the bottom line is that this site belongs to Susan and we should respect her position as a business owner who has made a considerable investment to provide this fabulous forum for us.

Lorri

[Mr. Bloom]

TE gets very good search engine placement.

TE has a strong following. I understand that google's algorithms a strong influenced by the number of links made to a website. So, I guess everytime you link someone to TE, you're helping TE's business.

To the bigger issue...we all get carried away sometimes without meaning harm. This is forum is strongly moderated, everyone knows it, and that's part of what gives it such a strong following.

[silver]

well, I probably shouldn't say anything....but

I didn't see the thread, I did not participate and I certainly did not inhale!

And I love a good joke or innuendo....

but we do have a cherished and very welcome member who is 13 or 14. I love having her here and would be crushed if she left. While it's possible/probable that she hears worse from her friends (not at school, since she's home schooled) we should probably should consider that in our discussions.

BTW, i think that "the" poster of Lance on his bike is ART! And I have a poster of the red haired cyclist "Cycles Gladiator" on my wall.