Every kid is different but here is what I've learned from my 4 year old son who started tandeming last april. He's now got over a thousand miles on the bike doing 20-50 mile rides 1-2 times a week and 2 or 3 short rides to the park or library or parents as teachers class in between the bigger rides. We do both mountain and road biking- he prefers the road because it's not as bumpy.....though he does have a blast on downhills on dirt.
1) Gloves are good.
2) He gets cold really easy and will usually want his windbreaker and long pants if it's under 85 degrees. I've learned to carry extra layers even when I think there's no possible way he'd want them.
3) Looking forward to something at the end of the ride is a good thing. Sometimes it's a food or treat, sometimes it's extra playground time. And yes, he can easily spend 3 more hours on the playground after a 3 hour ride.
4) Gatorade is good! It means lots of pee stops but he stays hydrated and thinks of gatorade as a bike or hike only treat. I use a camelback strapped onto the stoker handlebar stem. It's much easier for him to handle the tube rather than a bottle.
5) Stopping for a powerbar-like substance that he got to pick out for himself during a ride is a good thing.
6) A ziploc tied to the handlebars with cheerios/raisins/peanuts for anytime munching is a good thing.
7) The usual stoker stuff about communicating turns, slows, stops, extra effort, coasting, shifting, being smooth, bumps, etc.
8) Short rides to his favorite things (like the park) are fun. Other kids always ask him about his bike and he feels cool.
9) He's got an alligator horn and a hamburger bell. It doesn't drive you as crazy as you'd think. He loves to ring back and forth to other people and gets a lot of encouragement from other riders which he also loves.
10) Singing or talking is good. He does lots.
11) If he hasn't been wearing his helmet much (like the start of biking season) his neck gets tired and like the rest of his body has to get used to holding up the weight again.
12) He loves his shorts (more comfortable) and his jersey (everyone tells him he's cool). The gloves, though, are the most important of the three.
13) I have to ask him about his needs specifically because he won't remember to tell me.
14) He knows he's important part of making the tandem go, I remind him often as do other riders.
15) It'll take a little time to get used to both the speed of your spin and the speed of the bike, you may be asked to go slower (or faster!).
16) Remind them when they're tired that they can relax their legs and let you do the work sometimes. You can also ask for help, like on hills. They really can help, but only in small bursts.
17) Keep in mind how much the heat and cold affects your kids and plan/ride/don't ride accordingly.
18) Toe straps help keep his feet on the pedals. He's learned to move his feet/legs out of the way and tell me if they've disengaged, though I usually feel it happening.
19) Sure, it's not always fun for them, but putting enough bits of good into the ride to make the next one worth looking forward to is important.
Well, that's some of what I've learned. If you've got a specific question I'll answer as best I can.
Monarch Crest, CO

Farmdale Reservoir, IL
Last edited by singletrackmind; 01-05-2008 at 08:03 PM.
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