The others have said it well! You aren't alone. I wasted a lot of time trying to please my parents, and I finally realized that they would find fault with me, regardless. My siblings are the same way. So I accepted the fact that they would never change and just tried to ignore the little jabs.

Anyway, it sounds like you've accomplished a lot! Congratulations and keep focused on your goals. Sounds like you have a HEALTHY attitude about your weight/body, too. Be good to yourself.