Hi Annette, i know what you mean about Italian families, I have one too.
You're not going to change them. Just ignore them is the only solution I can think of. Your father (your whole family, really) only knows one way to give attention and you're not going to change him now. You could get INTO his face and say "LOOK at the wonderful thing I'm doing, and I feel so much better now!" but he'll probably just think of another wisecrack and any compliments you deserve he will THINK but not repeat out loud.
Ally yourself with other athletes like us here on TE (hey, I'm an athlete, how cool is that!)

Welcome to TE! tell us about your bike, your rides, etc.

Mimitabby