oh I am so sad!

[Brandi]

Thank you so much! just reading that made me cry again.

[teigyr]

Brandi, I am so sorry. It makes me angry, I don't understand how someone could do that to another person. My thoughts are with you and your DH during this time.

[LBTC]

Oh, Brandi! How sad and pointless! Sending you lots of hugs and butterflies that will guide you through your grief and towards healing and forgiveness. I'll send a few butterflies over to the ex, too, so that he can learn what his actions did and be sure to not do it again. *sigh*

Big hugs,
~T~

[slmdunc]

That truly is heartbreaking, Brandi. My thoughts are with you, and all of his friends and family.

[sbctwin]

{{{{{Brandi}}}}} Sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. I am glad you were presented with the opportunity to see him. That probably meant a lot to him as it did to you...

[sgtiger]

(((((((Brandi+Dh)))))))
I'm so sorry for your loss.


~sg

[bmccasland]

((((((((((Brandi))))))))))))

If this was 20 years ago, an HIV diagnosis would have been a death sentence, but much of it is treatable now. Such a shame that the partner kept the secret for so long. I still remember working in a hospital when HIV was new and scary. That and sadly seeing patients rapidly decline over a period of time.

[Brandi]

Thank you all (((((0)))))).It really mean's alot to me to be able to share this with all of you and have you be so understanding. The tears just seem to come when I don't expect them too. And i have a cold right now so I am weak as it is.
He was a great dancer so I keep seeing him in my head just breaking out and dancing whenever we went any place with him. I think of the way he used to giggle and kinda cover up he's mouth when he did. Or all the funny stories he would tell us about he's little Korean mom. He was a neat person!

[Pax]

Brandi, I am so sorry for your loss. I've lost nine friends and many acquaintances to that sh!tty disease over the years.