Seven months later: re-fractured clavicle

[singletrackmind]

Hope you're feeling better quick as possible, thank you sooo much for your story-the hubby read it over my shoulder, now maybe he'll get off my back for not getting a plate either the first or second time I broke mine (and it never properly healed either time so I'm not saying I -or you- shouldn't have gone with it....just that he bothers me about it every time I do just the wrong thing and accidentally let out a yelp)....Danged collarbones!

See, housework is hazardous to your health!

[smilingcat]

Hi RR,

Oh dear, so bizzare that you would fracture it again. Your first round 7 month ago and just getting the plate out 2 weeks ago says to me that your first time around must have been really serious (big nasty one).
I've broken both of mine...

Well, please take it easy and keep your arm in a sling. Drink lots of calcium fortified OJ. What little I know says your body can't absorb the calicum without the vitamin-C...

lots of healing thoughts,
smilingcat

[Velobambina]

I broke my clav in '96. Running up a hill, tripped on a manhole cover, then ran 10 miles w/it broken. I remember the sensation of things readusting & moving around. My fracture didn't need surgery, thank goodness, but I spent about six weeks wearing a sling. Healed up fine. Even worse than the fracture was restoring range of motion to my joint--on my own (no PT)--after the bone healed. Be prepared for that--make sure that you get physical therapy and get the muscles in your shoulder joint STRONG so you won't have any lingering problems from the fracture.

Broke my elbow, ice skating, in '03. No cast, sling was optional, I rarely used the latter as I wanted to ensure that I kept the range of motion, despite the intense pain every time I moved the arm or my wrist/hand (the break was minor--more a crack--but it hurt like the devil). I could do the marcerena arms after a couple weeks, which impressed my ortho. I've got a high tolerance for pain/discomfort.

My advice--lots of good healing food, good thought, much patience. Think of the long-term reward of fully restored use of the joint and return to activity. In the short-term, a six week layoff and the subsequent rehab is never easy. This time of the year, it will be easier since the weather isn't that conducive to outdoor activity. You can always get your fitness back, so long as the bone heals strong. Lots of calcium. I upped my milk/dairy & my protein intake when my bones were healing.

It's not easy but you'll get through it. Like all bad things, it will come to an end.

[sgtiger]

((((((RiRi))))))

I'm so sorry to hear that your clavicle is re-injured. I'm sending you many healing wishes that this time around it will quickly and completely heal.

My 7 y.o. son broke his last spring falling out of bed and it definitely was not fun. He had to have his arm in a sling for six weeks to let his clavicle heal. After a couple of weeks the pain subsided, so it was very difficult for him to remember that he wasn't to move his arm else his clavicle wouldn't have a chance of healing properly. It took many motherly reminders and just plain nagging (and a few threats with taping his arm to his side! ) to keep him from moving it too much. I received many a harry eyeballs during that time but we survived through it.

The day we let him take off his sling, he hooped and hollered, then jumped on his bike and rode around as fast as he could. It was very difficult to get him to go inside that day.

[run it, ride it]

Goodness, thank you all for the replies.

Okay, onto the good stuff: I ended up quitting my job in my hometown after six weeks because I was being pressured into tasks that were dangerous for my clavicle and tendonitis (carrying mop buckets, scrubbing showers overhead). Thank goodness I did--given how weak the fracture apparently was, it would not have taken much for hardware failure.

I arranged a sublet at a good friend's house, signed up for a personal training course, landed a job at a local gym, and moved back to the town the Nice Young Gentleman I mentioned in the first post was from--and where I was still boarding my horse.

I had two amazing housemates for the remainder of the summer--a beautiful husky who snuggled with me every night, and a very cute guy with whom I had a lot in common--including, of course, that we both had significant others.

Well, except that his had gone to Africa for two months and never called him; and mine, the aforementioned Nice Young Gentleman, was just vocal enough about that fact that he had commitment issues (when I was getting just attached enough that his dating someone else would have devastated me) that I had to keep a careful distance.

My housemate and I would talk late into the night... we were absolutely respectful of one another, and of one another's relationships, flawed though they both were. We liked the same books and would spend hours reading outside in the yard, walking the dog, watching meteor showers in the park....

Well (and I'm sure you all see where this is going), long story short... housemate's relationship and my relationship both petered off (though I am still very close friends with the Nice Young Gentleman), and longer story short, I am still living with, and happily committed to, my housemate.

And the horse... he hasn't thrown me since the fracture in May. We've since jumped our first Cross-Country fences, camped out in the wilderness, rode in three Santa Claus parades... What fractured clavicle? What arthritic horse? While my ideal horse is something with a lot of 'GO,' I can trust my old steed to the ends of the earth, particularly when I'm injured... so I guess I'll hang onto him a little longer.

Nor have I fallen off a bicycle since. My first time out 'the guys,' I kid you not, I creeped down every even slightly scary decline with both hands on the brakes and one foot unclipped. I was terrified but determined. When one of the guys suggested, "try putting both your feet on the pedals and letting go of the brakes" I shot him a "yeah, no kidding, but no way in hell!" look and my friend who had accompanied me to the hospital told him firmly, "she's doing exactly what she should be doing." Before the fracture, I would have been mortified if one of the guys saw me hesitate and followed their every tidbit of advice. After, I had higher priorities.

Once my confidence came back, under the careful guidance of my mountain-bike-mentor/hospital-accompanier, I was flying faster than ever before. SAFER than ever before. Obstacles I might have once thought scary--logs, roots, rocks--were a breeze, but I spooked and slammed the brakes and INCHED, heart pounding, through ANY quick dip in the dirt that reminded me of the jump that sent me flying.

This setback is rough in the moment, but I learned valuable lessons with the first break: how to accept help from others; how to ask for help; how to advocate for my own safety; how to appreciate my limits.

And man oh man--how to fend off all those creepy guys who see the sling and think, "conversation starter, AND she can't get away as quick..."

[silver]

Ohhhh, I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I do remember your story very clearly.

from reading your words, it sounds like you have a pretty good perspective on this. your words show your strength and courage and resolution to get through this. Your words also show your frustration.

Please come here whenever you need to vent or just talk through things.

I haven't had the exact same situation as you, but I've had lots of injuries because of my desire to be active. The situation that is most similar to yours is breaking my right foot about a year and a half after breaking the left because of running marathons. After the first stress fracture I thought I was doing everything right, being so careful and then the second break happened when doing "all the right things" The doctors acted like they hadn't seen anything like it and treated me as if I was just being whiney.

Here's some of what I've found.....You WILL get through this. you WILL a lot about yourself...your strength and your fragility, you WILL find ways to be active again as you heal. You'll do things differently and you will make mistakes. but you will carry on.

Now tell us about the SO!!!!!!!