Plenty of options from TE:
http://www.teamestrogen.com/categories.asp?catID=36

I have two Louis Garneau balaclavas. They are silky and stretchy, not clumsily thick.
You can pull them around to cover your chin or not, etc, and if it gets really cold I put the second one on as well, it slides nicely over the first one. If I get a bit warm with just the one on, i can even just pull the top down in back of my head and use it as a nice silky neck gaiter to just keep my neck warm. It's not waterproof though, just for warmth.

You might need to get some wool glove liners from smartwool or Ibex etc, to put under your new gloves when it gets really cold.
Fingers and toes get the coldest of all your parts- they need the heavy protection.