I have to agree with Anne - I am small and thin and I have a really hard time finding clothing period, cycling included, that fits me properly. I find it to be very frustrating that so many people talk very negatively about clothing only being made for small thin people. It's not true. Along with your XL's try to make sure you have some of the smallest sizes too.

I also agree that beyond the stuff that is women's specific for a fit reason I don't need things that are just packaged for women. No small pink pumps (which really did not sell well around here - I see them on sale everywhere) or other things like that. I am perfectly capable of using the same tools and accesories as the men.