Heh, at least they didn't need to push you ! My first ride with these guys, I got several helpful pushes over the course of the 50 miles. So I went home thinking "Okay, I should not be bothering these people if they have to phsyically push me so I can keep up ." DH talked with his friend who was also on the ride, friend said, "She just needs to learn to draft better." When my next opportunity to ride with them came, I needed some convincing from DH (and myself) to go out and do it again. But I did it ! I still have to talk myself into riding with them, but it gets easier each time!