Kgirl, one thing I really don't want is to get hit on. So This way i can assure myself that the only people that want to talk to me are doing it for platonic reasons.
and THANK YOU for noticing

Also, i have a mother who has lied about her age all of her life.
Since she is only 20 years older than me, even when I was small, it was awkward.
I was 11 telling her new boyfriend i was 9. No kidding. I did that.
Now, I scandalize her just by admitting my age...
(she's younger than I am now)
I have 4 names. legal name, nickname (mimi), maiden name and married name.

Simple!