It is all my fault! I'm the one that in my very emotional state accidentally said "free" in my post with regards to his healthcare. I really didn't have any way of knowing this and that was a wrong assumption on my part and wrong use of words, but AGAIN, I was upset.

I never wanted this thread to turn into a disagreement among members. I appreciate the different thoughts and respect that everyone has their own opinion. It's hard to know what I would have done until I was faced with it. But please, it's going to all be OK.