Hubby and I have sat and cried for the last hour and been over every option at least 10 more times back and forth. If it is possible, I think it is harder on my hubby than it is on me.
He does not feel that the vet intended any harm or cruelty. He thinks the he was just doing what he could do to save the dog. We know how hard it is for them to put one down. We have seen another female vet there crying and unable to talk because she had just had to put one down.
Hubby just left. I couldn't go. I just can't go there. He is going to talk with the vet. He also took his bed. If he goes home with someone else, I want him to have something familiar. His bed. I would have sent toys, but he doesn't play with any toys. He is just a lap dog.
"Chisel praise in stone; write criticism in sand."