So, if you have a 17 year old I suppose I don't have to remind you how seldom such invitations will be in another year or two, so be sure not to miss any now. But, what you may not know yet, is that in another 10 years it may be your older daughter who asks to go for a ride with you. One of the things my husband and I cherish is the fact that our son and daughter-in-law invite us to go on rides with them.