hey vanessa!!! i had the same problem with the sit bones and what i call the "disneyland spot". i got the terry butterfly, and my "down there" parts are thanking me. it made all the difference in the world. if that doesn't work, try one of the gel saddles from terry. chamois butt'r never worked for me because it was too thin. i am going to try bag balm and see how it goes. i will let you know.