Hey LBTC,

First of all, happy birthday!

That sort of comment can be hurtful, but you don't know what she meant by it. If it were me, I'd ask, without assumptions or accusations. It may be that she was trying to say something you don't expect and it all just came out wrong (I do that all the time); I doubt that she meant to hurt your feelings, but if you can talk about it (without it being a big deal) and clear the air, you'll probably be able to understand and let it go much easier. At least that's how it is for me. I like to clear the air and not hold grudges but find it hard to forget something that is unresolved...

Take care

Anne