SERIOUS emotional advice needed - What would you do???

[Trek420]

How awful!! I'm so sorry you experienced that.

My advice is:
Write her a letter

Don't think so.

Let her know that what she did was the equivalent of confronting mourners at a funeral or memorial service and wholly offensive

I don't expect her to "get it" have any empathy for the victim and his family. Really! Maybe someday, long from now.

remind her she should be grateful that her son is not in jail for negligent homicide.

Best idea so far!! If it's come to a civil suit this kind of action will not go well for her. Hopefully at some point it will sink in "I killed someone". If I ever did that I could never drive again.

Best that Silver and all stay away from her though, it could end badly. A well thought out letter to the editor would be good and would show public support to the family and friends of the rider which is the most important.