I want to ride on beautiful rural roads.... but cars scare me.

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I've noticed this same phenomenon! I get buzzed a lot more often if I'm already riding really close to the side of the road when a car comes up behind me. I agree that maybe drivers are perceiving us as doing them a favor by moving over. And many times, I'm riding in the tire place out by the center line because the entire right half of the lane is broken pavement. Then I really have to move over for cars, and maybe they do appreciate all that effort I'm making to get out of their way! At any rate, all this is possible because of that handy dandy little helmet mirror.

I agree 110%. Plus, when you use your mirror and then move over when a car is coming, they then know that you are aware of them coming up behind, and I think they appreciate knowing that you know and are not going to swerve out unexpectedly. Sometimes a car just slows way down behind me ion rural roads and I know they are hesitant to pass me (though there is room) ....I see them in my mirror and wave them on to pass me and I KNOW they really appreciate that. Cars really appreciate it when you do things that show you know they are coming up behind you and its ok to pass you.
My helmet mirror broke last month and I had to go for one ride without it. It was AWFUL- it was just like driving a car without any rearview or side mirrors. NO THANKS.

[froglegs]

This morning I went for a ride on a windy, hilly, narrow road flanked by vineyards, ranches, and oak trees. I went to a nearby town and back, about 24 miles round trip. It was SO FANTASTIC. I felt WAY more comfortable out there than I ever do in town. There were very few cars, I was able to hear them coming (haven't had time to buy a mirror yet, going to today) and they all gave me plenty of space. At one point, after going up a particularly long hill, I accidentally dropped my water bottle and it rolled across the road. There happened to be a car passing by, and the driver slowed all the way down to avoid running over my bottle. I thought that was very nice.

I went by myself, but I knew that the route I was going was frequented by cyclists, and I saw TONS of them. I will definitely be going on that ride again, maybe a little farther next time.

I want to say thanks to everyone here, if not for all of you, it probably would have taken weeks for me to work up the courage to do this!!

[jusdooit]

I don't use a mirror and rarely have difficulty hearing cars. A great place to search for routes in your area is mapmyride.com. You can also use it to track your own routes, or map out new ones.

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I have tried out several ride mapping sites, and I like mapmyride.com the best too. It can also show you the elevations of a ride you are planning, so you are not surprised by unexpected huge hills, etc.
I love it!
Be sure to check the "follow roads" box and it will mark precisely right along on the road as you click.

[aicabsolut]

go get 'em froglegs! Go hit those country roads and enjoy yourself.

I'm with sara- I always wear my mirror (and my neon blinding green safety vest). Sure I look dorky, but cars can see me and I can see them. I love my mirror, because I've found that if I ride in the tire place on the road, when a car is coming up behind me I move over and most cars are very appreciative that I've moved over for them. I rarely have been buzzed when doing this. When I first started riding, I never did that and got buzzed a lot more. I think it's because they see that I'm giving them room so they give me room. Don't know if that's the case or not, but it makes me feel better anyway.

I do that too, but I just use my eyes. Not a mirror. When I pass someone with a mirror, I admit I get a little nervous, because I know there are a ton of cars with mirrors who never see me -- the ones that pull out of parallel parking spaces into me or nearly door me. Sure, those drivers may not be using their mirrors. It's just that I expect a cyclist without a mirror to look behind before coming farther out in the road. One with a mirror may just check the mirror, and if they don't see me, well, that could really suck for my front wheel. I will say something to someone I'm passing who doesn't expect me there, but I generally don't start hollering at them from behind.

***flame suit on***

I'll look back, and if the car follows for a long time on a windy country road, when it's clear, I'll wave them by.

[KnottedYet]

I use my dingy-bell from behind, then holler "one bike, passing on your left" when I'm close enough that they'll hear me, but well before my front wheel is anywhere near them. (I like my front wheels... I also like my facial bones right they way they are! )

Froglegs: congratulations!! Sounds like a lovely ride, and a very considerate car when your water bottle went AWOL.

[latelatebloomer]

As my buddy Trekhawk says, Good on you, mate! A toast to you for facing your fear and letting friends help you through it. MANY happy miles to you! (another little tip - yoga/stretching to keep your back and neck nice and flexie, so that quick look behind you is fluid, easy, and has a lot of range.)

[emily_in_nc]

froglegs,

Congratulations on your rural ride! I too have been struggling with this fear. I used to ride 1000s of miles yearly on rural roads with very little fear, but I had a serious accident (fractured my pelvis in three places) when two dogs ran out at me on a rural road about 6 miles from home in April '05. After my surgery and recovery, I was just getting back to tentatively riding again that fall, when my father died in an auto accident (also on a rural road near his farm) in Oct. '05. After that, I couldn't bring myself to ride on the road for a long, long time. I just felt way too vulnerable. I took up mountain biking in early summer of 2006, but didn't get back out on my road bike until August of '06, and the first few rides I was almost shaking from fear.

I still struggle with occasional anxiety when I am out there on the road, especially about the possibility of a dog or dogs running out, and to a lesser extent over cars and trucks, but I'm dealing with it the best I can. And the more I ride, the less I get overwhelmed by fear. I've definitely lost my innocence, but if that makes me a safer, more careful rider, then that is a silver lining in all this. I just can't let my life be ruled by fear, no matter how tempting it sometimes is! I'd just miss riding too much -- my passion for this activity runs very deep.

Emily

[RoadRaven]

Hey hey hey again froglegs!

Wll done, glad you enjoyed it, glad you had a go

I am a big fan of rural roads... pleased you have found them to be not soooo daunting

[elk]

I wanna go too...;-) You've inspired me.

[froglegs]

Wow, that is a great site (mapmyride.com). Great for my running too! I am really looking forward to Friday, the next time I can go for a ride........ I'm starting to sound like an addict...I need my fix!!