gosh, guys! go barefoot! wear flip flops and sandals!
it definitely is NOT a natural aging thing, i am old enough. I have never worn shoes that were too tight and i quit wearing ANY kind of heels when i was in my early 20's.
I gave up on "stylish" back then too. Why? they hurt my feet.
I wore Danner hiking boots daily during my 20's because they were the only thing that was comfortable.
Women's shoe styles are not made for feet. They are made to appease some goofy designers.

and Knot has some good toe exercises for you guys!