Absolutely I agree with you there - not knowing if a person is a member of any certain group is no excuse to make rude jokes, discriminatory remarks etc. - but my idea is an internet community like this one does bring about an interesting situation - we are all very much like blind people here, we can't make a snap decision about anyone based on much more than their grammar if they don't choose to tell us - you could possibly be a person who does make judgements on others based on what they look like and find yourself becoming friends with a person that you may in physical life have prejudged as a person you wouldn't like - be it based on race, age, whether or not they ride a pink bike, have a big nose - whatever your personal biases happen to be.
Sure we still form impressions of people through their writing, but I do think that most people do tend to look at a person and decide how they think that person will act, what kind of person they will be before they really get to know them (and it doesn't have to be based on race, etc - just looking like that 3rd grade teacher you hated or resembling a favorite aunt can bias a person, against or in favor of a person before they even speak to that person). Most people can get past that initial judgement and allow themselves to get to know a person more indepth before they really decided if they like the person or not, but some people just can't get past that initial phase.




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