I understand your feelings. You want something that's yours and now you need to share swimming. Add in the "we're never apart" feeling and you have a recipe for resentment. By swimming in separate lanes at least you can concentrate on doing your own thing. That's probably a good compromise.
I swam 1500m this morning. I had planned on doing another 100m but I seem to have tweaked something in my right shoulder.![]()



And I feel kind of mean for feeling that way... he thinks I just don't like that he can keep up with me (to which I think, yes, you're right, in some ways I want to tromp you in class, but if you're in a different lane as me and you keep up I don't care, I just don't want you always on my back, I want something to myself).
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