I've been involved in situations where:
  • I've let the "F" fly
  • I've let the "Finger" wave
  • I've gotten really mad


I get mad at myself when I let someone push me to the brink

But, following all that, I've decided in advance what I will do the next time something really stupid/unsafe happens.

My goal: I'm trying to not be mad or surprised, but rather go into auto-pilot by immediately focusing on License # and Vehicle Description...THIS TAKES PRACTICE to get good at it - particularly in a stressful situation.

THEN, I'm resolved that IF something bad happens, I am fully prepared to go straight to the police and FILE a complaint...no discussion...just file a complaint.

I believe confidence comes from preparation.