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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend and about you. I'll keep your friend in my prayers and I'm glad to hear yours was recoverable! Take care of yourself and take it easy the next few days!
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"