Just today, on my ride, I was thinking about how great it is that I can get out there and ride without worrying about who will be home with the kids. They're 9 and 12 now, so they're fine on their own. I only got into cycling about a year ago, so I never had to schedule around them, though I did when I was into walking/running and any time I wanted to go to the gym, etc.. I scheduled around Dh's schedule, which wasn't always easy to do because his schedule changes every other minute, yet he doesn't have to leave for work at 6:00 or 7:00 every day either.

My kid's are homeschooled, so it's not like I could ever drop them off at school and go exercise.

I think a babysitter a couple of times a week would be good. When you feel good, you'll be a better mom!